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3 days, 18 hours ago
by Teresa

Hi Fairywishes

My autistic daughter sometimes gets angry or upset for reasons that are not immediately apparent to me. However, I've certainly found that my own anxiety and mood can affect hers. Your daughter may be very sensitive to how you are feeling but have no way to express it other than by behaving 'badly'. It is also worth remembering that she may actively be seeking your negative attention (shouting etc.). It is easy to say, but I find that if I can find it in myself to relax and take a step back, my daughter usually calms down far more readily than if I shout at her or tell her off. (I'm not saying that I always manage that level of serenity, by any means) I do hope things get better for you and your family, it sound as though you're going through one of those tough times. best wishes, Teresa

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